The following essay was submitted by Alli Remily as part of our #Write2Win Contest. It was one of our favorite submissions, so she’s won a prize and we’re reposting it here.
The one thing nobody ever tells you about college is how completely alone you feel. For the first time in your life, you are supposed to do everything on your own when just a few months ago everybody held your hand. It’s scary. The thing is, you’re so excited to finally get to do whatever you want, to become an adult. But it’s hard, a lot harder than anyone thinks. I go to college in another state, so I don’t have the luxury of going home any weekend I want and have my family cook me food and do my laundry. But I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
My parents always wanted me to go to college in state but I fell in love with my out-of-state college when we first visited. So going to college 5 hours by car away from my parents has taught me not to give up when things get rough. I had a terrible first year of college. I was constantly homesick, crying all the time, and even having dinner with my family over Skype instead of with people from my dorm. It was really hard for me to make friends. But I knew that I couldn’t just give up and go home, no matter how much I wanted to. It’d be a slap in the face to all the people who never get the chance to go to college. (more…)