There are books, magazines, articles, websites, e-books, mobile apps, pamplets, seminars, weekend retreats, YouTube videos, documentaries, comic strips, and (probably) puppet shows dedicated to preparing yourself for a job interview. These information sources tend to nitpick every little detail about your appearance and demeanor in order to give you the secret recipe to landing a job. (No pressure or anything.)
I once attended an excruciatingly boring talk about what to wear to interviews. The attendees were supposed to wear what they would at an interview while the speaker would tell these individual attendees why their ties were too short, their jackets too loose-fitting, or their heels too high. I went from simply being bored to actively disliking the speaker when she got into an argument with a friend of mine about gender normative attire. When we broke after over an hour for the half-way point intermission, I didn’t return. (more…)
The following essay was submitted by Paris Singleton as part of our #Write2Win Contest. It was one of our favorite submissions, so she’s won a prize and we’re reposting it here.
Currently I am a sophomore at Texas State, and being a Bobcat is my life now. Before coming to college I was a wallflower, not much going on and not much to remember me by, but I remember promising myself that I would make a real effort to break out of that, have fun, push myself, and do what I wanted.
My first year at Texas State was a full nine months of growing into adulthood, backtracking through things I hadn’t done before, that I should have done in high school. My roommates were as different from me as I could have ever imagined, and we got on each other’s nerves, but I think college, at least the first year is truly about learning from other people; really taking what they give out and adding that to your journey through the next four years of your life. (more…)